Assuming you have met her before in person (i.e. not a first Internet to person meeting) a kiss on the cheek for sure! It works like a charm. I am European, so it. What I'm saying is that going on your first date and meeting in person is like starting your relationship from scratch, so you need to take the time. What would be the right way to greet someone for the first time from a date site. 1. Shack hands carken.info and nod carken.info I am lost on this one.